introtobdsm:

so you are interested in bdsm, huh? whether it be because you read a book like fifty shades of grey *shivers* or you are just curious, here are some links to help you start out!

What does bdsm stand for/what is it?

• BDSM
• What is bdsm?
• So what is bdsm?
• The difference between bdsm and abuse

Bondage

• What is bondage?
• Bondage and Restraints 101
• Rope bondage 101
• Bondage for beginners

Discipline 

• BDSM techniques
• Discipline v. punishment
• are they the same thing?
• Discipline

Dominant/Dominance/Dom/Domming

• Dominance 101
• How to be a dom
• How hard can it be?
• Everything you could want to know about being dominant

Submissive/Submission/Sub/Subbing

• Submissive 101
• How to be submissive
• Intro to subbing
• So you want to be submissive?

Sadism/Sadist

• Sexual Sadism
• Sadism 101
• Sadism in BDSM
• Sadism 101

Masochism/Masochist

• Sexual Masochism
• Understanding Masochism
• Processing Pain
• The joys of being a masochist

Types of Dom/Sub Relationships

• Types of relationships
• Dom/Sub types
• Different types
• A quick beginner’s guide to subs

Is BDSM always sexual?

• Asexual and kinky
• Asexuality in BDSM
• What is non sexual play?
• Nonsexual dom/sub

Is the man always dominant and the female submissive?

• Sexually Dominant Women and the Men who Desire them
• Femdom idea guide
• Appeal of a male sub
• The good girl’s guide to female dominance

I’m a feminist and submissive. Is that wrong?

• What it’s like being submissive and feminist
• Why im sexually submissive and feminist
• Feminist sex submissive
• Being a feminist submissive

Can i be trans/do i have to be straight to be into bdsm? Heck no! bdsm does not discriminate the kink/fetish community is one of the most accepting communities. so go on and be yourself we wont hurt you (unless you want to be)

So what’s wrong with fifty shades of grey?

• 50 things wrong with 50 shades of grey
• What’s wrong with fifty shades of grey?
• The troubling list of things wrong with 50 shades of grey
• 7 realities of bdsm that 50 shades of grey ignores

*please note there is nothing wrong with exploring your sexuality and fetishes. there is nothing wrong with enjoying 50 shades of grey as long as you recognize that Christian Grey is not the role model for a good dom

Sub drop/ Dom drop

• Sub space, aftercare, and sub drop
• Dom drop
• The emotional side of sub drop
• To dom space, dom drop, and beyond

Aftercare

• Aftercare for dominants
• Aftercare
• Aftercare 101
• Aftercare for submissives

Signs of an abusive bdsm relationship

• Can i be abused in a bdsm relationship?
• Field guide to the creepy dom
• Warning signs of a bad dom
• Abusive subs

Places to meet people interested in bdsm

• fetlife
• bdsm dating sites
• fester
• bondage pal

Where to get toys

• pleasure chest
• amazon
• etsy
• liberator
• frisky buisness
• adam and eve
• babe land
• pure romance
• amazing
• too timid

BDSM on a Budget

• BDSM on a budget
• Sex toys you can make at home
• Budget BDSM
• Budget BDSM 101

Misc.

• The paradox of dom/sub relationships
• Advice to newbie subs on dominants
• The relationship between a sadist and masocist
• 101 ways to make your slave/sub feel owned
• Beginner’s guide to d/s
• BDSM training academy *for both doms, subs, and switches