obnoxiously-phan:

annoyedvertigo:

mimi-shake-draws:

catchaglimpseofalleble:

clloudy:

flustered-custard:

silentshivers:

every single person who reblogs this

every

single

person.

ALL OF YOU.

no limit, no one skipped. EVERY PERSON WHO REBLOGS THIS.

DON’T ASK WHY, IT’LL MAKE SENSE LATER

WHAT DOES THIS EVEN MEAN

Just wait…it’ll all make sense.

I REBLOG THIS BECAUSE I AM CURIOUS. I AM WAITING

I REBLOGGED AND IMMEDIATELY AFTER

I reblogged as a joke and i swear that it happened five minutes later omg

hiscleverpet:

gentledom:

A common misconception is that bdsm is all about sex.

It is not.

It is a special kind of a relationship and like in most other types of relationships, sex is part of it but by far not the whole thing. As for each relationship, you need some kind of base and sex can never be that base, it can only be an add-on once the relationship is founded and trust is established.

So it is not so much about having sexual experience, rather about having some experience with relationships. Why? Because for a novice sub, it can be very hard to get out of an abusive bdsm relationship since she still has no clue of how it all works and if she is even allowed to say no when the Dom requests something that she doesn’t feel comfortable with. (Of course she is and she even needs to say no then.) If she had some experience with relationships before and some “training” in interacting with a partner, it will be easier for her to detect abusive patterns in the first place and then also to react reasonably when she detects them.

I know of several subs who came to bdsm at a very early age and unfortunately, their first “Dom” was not a Dom at all but what I call a wannabedom or simply put a jerk who tried to hide behind a respected title to pursue his abusive needs. Because they were so inexperienced relationshipwise, it took them a  while until they even realized what was happening and by then, they felt already a strong connection to their respective “Dom” which made it all the harder to still get out of it. Some of them would not have managed to get away any more out of their own but needed the help of others to literally pull them out of that situation.

With a true, caring Dom the way I try to portray him here in my blog, bdsm can be a wonderful kind of relationship and the sex in this relationship can be very fulfilling. But unfortunately, there are also jerks out there and they do not wear a label “jerk” on their forehead. So be careful, get some experience on how a healthy relationship can work first and when you venture into the realms of bdsm, don’t turn off your brain, listen to your guts and when you realize you ended up with a jerk, run – and run fast.

I am aware of the fact that there are also jerks in vanilla relationships but usually, a Dom is regarded as someone superior by novice subs – which he is actually not – and so it can be easier to say no to a vanilla jerk than to a wannabedom.

This is why it makes me so nervous when people with absolutely zero relationship experience have an interest in bdsm. I know it’s not really any of my business but… eep!

Not only is relationship experience a way to detect when something is amiss, it’s also great if you’ve had time to learn how to communicate and resolve issues with a partner before adding in the intensity of bdsm or D/s.

eenslaved:

“My toy is most amusing,” Professor Harding said. “She begs most prettily. And if you ask her what she will do for us, she offers her body for our use in the most…creative ways.”

Missy was sitting on the carpet, hands resting on her splayed knees, bared to her waist. Her professor had said nothing to her except that they would be attending a gathering of his closest friends. Then he had her crawl into a traveling kennel. When they arrived at his friend’s house, someone had come out and helped the professor carry the kennel inside, whereupon it was unlocked and Missy came crawling out.

One of the professor’s friends lifted Missy’s skirt and whistled. “Your toy seems to be leaking!” he said, rich amusement in his voice. ”Now that’s the natural state of a proper slut. Has she always been like this?”

Missy blushed in humiliation as they stood around her in a loose circle, talking about the uncontrolled responses of her body. Her breathing had grown deeper and louder, a fact noticed by all in attendance. Indeed, while a few eyes were locked on her face, even more eyes were unable to look away from the rising and falling of her naked breasts.

“More or less,” her professor said. He was standing a little farther back so as not to impede the view he had access to on a daily basis. “Her training has been conducted in several stages. The first was that orgasms are a reward. The second, I denied her of them for a period of a month. It was a most difficult month…for us both. She was quite miserable. And I had to be very carefully not to let her tip over.”

“What progress are you making with her now?”

“Ah,” smiled the professor. “Now is when I have begun to condition her body so that it cums at certain stimuli. A word, for example. If I order her to. And if she has a load of a man’s semen in her mouth…or if someone twists her nipples in a most painful manner. Soon one need only brush against her in a certain way and her body will orgasm. I use all manner of implements to assist in this part of her training. The Sybian has been most effective, I’ve found. Allow me to demonstrate.”

He sauntered forward towards Missy. 

“Please, Sir,” she said.

“Offer me your tits, Missy.”

Missy’s hands crept up to her chest and she cradled her round breasts in an offering. Her eyes darted around the room and saw many eyes watching her avariciously back.

From his pocket, the professor pulled out a pair of shining nipple clamps. He diligently screwed each one onto Missy’s nipples, turning each screw tighter and tighter. When Missy whimpered, he gave them each a full turn once more before leaving off. Brushing a fingertip across the trapped buds, he smiled as Missy inhaled sharply, and then stepped back.

“It’s already begun,” he said simply to his friends. Then in a firm voice he said to her, “Cum!”

Missy’s hands had returned to her knees, and her knuckles were white as she pressed her fingers to her knees. Her breathing had escalated to a dog-like panting, and she was squirming where she sat. Her whimpers grew into longer and longer unbroken cries, and her back arched until her body was drawn tight as a bow, and she bowed back until her head almost touched the floor. 

It was clear to everyone that the girl the professor called Missy was gripped in a most powerful orgasm before their eyes. The professor leaned forward and flipped up her skirt, tucking it into her waistband so they could see how her pussy clenched convulsively. Her body shuddered, her breasts shaking lewdly as if she did it on purpose to incite their lust. As the orgasm racked her body, the professor unclipped the nipple clamps. He said again, clearly, “Cum, my little fuck slut!”  

His words set her off again. Her nipples were still swollen and tight, and the professor urged two gentlemen forward.

“Grab her titties. There’s no need to be gentle with this toy.”

At first they, guiltily, only held on with light holds. But as they watched her body shudder in another orgasm, writhing at their feet—she had fallen on her side—almost thrashing out of their hold, they redoubled their grip into pierce pinches as tight as mousetraps. The girl squealed and moaned, but they only crushed their fingers together harder in response. Her head lolled limply, and her pert body heaved under a sheen of sweat.

The professor squatted over her head, his cock out. Her mouth was already open on another cry, and it was a simple matter for him to force feed his cock into her mouth. They watched her cheek bulge as the head of his cock prodded it, and then her throat hitching up and down as she struggled not to gag. Her eyes fluttered open and shut alternately. 

The professor fucked her mouth in brutal, short strokes and soon they saw his body tighten in orgasm.

“Ahh,” he exhaled, after he commanded the girl to “Hold”.

Semen dribbled from the corner of her lips as he withdrew his cock. Her eyes were open and fastened blindly on her owner. Under the men’s hands, her body began to tremble and struggle…they saw in disbelief that she was fighting a slow rising orgasm again.

“A man’s seed in her mouth triggers orgasm for her,” the professor said calmly cleaning his cock with a washcloth someone had helpfully passed him. “Believe it or not, Missy didn’t used to love giving oral sex. Said she didn’t like the taste…now her body worships cock even as a part of her mind still hates it.”

Missy’s lips were pressed tightly closed. She breathed loudly through her nose and had begun to make a whining noise as the professor talked. He walked over to her again and gave her permission: “You may swallow.”

As she did so, the orgasm hit her. Her body flopped like a landed fish, totally out of her control, and rebelled against the men abusing her nipples, but they gamely held on. Having swallowed her Master’s seed, she now cried first her pleasure, then her pain that radiated from her poor tortured chest.

(Previous Missy installments here)

mrstinkbrain:

She babbled incoherently as his fingers drove in and out of her hard. “That’s a good girl. Let go for Daddy.” Her body slumped forward as she convulsed with pleasure, her limbs jerking, her chains pulling taut as she stumbled forward.  Her eyelids fluttered as he continued to work his fingers in to her. “Breath” Was his only command as he pulled his invading fingers away. A deep beast like breath echoed off the walls as he pushed into her again, her body instantly sky rocketing out of her control and into the palm of his hand. “You know what I want. I won’t stop until you give it to me.” His hands moved ever faster her knees struggling against their binds, her bodies last effort to maintain shame. But, still he pressed on. Forcing her over the edge. Again she slumped forward, chains rattling as they took over her body weight. She dangled like a rag doll as her wetness cascaded down his arm dripping to her thighs, finding its home on the cold wood floor. “That’s my girl.” He smiled as he stood up fetching a towel from his pocket he dabbed at his arm as she rattled her chains in ecstasy. He moved closer to her calling out her name, turning her face up to look in her eyes. Her eyes rolled down from heaven as he tapped her cheek gently. “Come back to me princess. Come back.” Again her eyes fluttered as her mind struggled to regain her surroundings. “Now. You hang out here while Daddy goes to clean up. When I get back we will go again. I know there is more in there.”

armatroiae:

saythankyoumaster:

Mara Wilson wouldn’t lie.

The Boss. Go read it. A minor plot hole or two, but sexy, well enough written and a submissive woman who I swear to god echos my exact words and feelings sometimes. This is what sexy billionaire bdsm should be. And the sex is utterly real and the characters are no-drama down to earth humans. Refreshing, empowering, and everything I wish 50 shades had been. I’m halfway through book one and I’m feeling great about who I am. It’s lovely to see sex – positive bdsm, to see who I am reflected positively and realistically in a novel.

Teases

female-orgasm-denial:

armatroiae:

I’ve always found teases from online satisfy me more than drive me crazy. Here’s a list of some of the most effective I’ve come up with for myself. They are meant to give no satisfaction, play into my humiliation kink, and usually make me pretty wet. But, I have to admit that these also offer more relief than I’d like.

This can be a game with a d20. Just reroll if you get a number above 15.

1. Stuff your cunt and sit with your legs spread while browsing tumblr. 15 mins.

2. Fill your cunt with a dildo for 30 seconds. Remove the cock and put your panties back on.

3.Bend over your bed with your legs spread. Grind against it for 5 mins.

4. Write a sign that explains what a slut you are and clip it to your tits. Hold the chain of the clamps in your mouth and sit on the armchair with your legs spread for 10 mins.

5. Put a trail of bengay along your bathtub. Slide up and down it for 5 mins. If you edge, you’re done and must kneel in the living room with your ass in the air and your knees spread.

6. Kneel with your legs spread and the spreader bar between them. Clip your outer labia to the middle ring. Random time less than 10 mins.

7. Take a nap (at least 30 mins) with a pillow between your knees, pressed against your cunt. Don’t you dare grind it. Fantasize. (I have an incredibly dirty mind when napping). Send fantasies to Master in email.

8. Make yourself dripping wet. Then grind a piece of furniture and lick your juices off. If bengay, wipe it off with any part of your body but your hand.

9. Hold your mouth on a cock for five minutes with your legs spread. Don’t move.

10. Write the word whore on a piece of masking tape and put it on your forehead. Stick your dildo to the wall under your window and fuck yourself as slowly as possible for 5 mins. Stop to keep from cumming, but complete the full time.

11. Sit with a vibrator on low laying on your cunt. You may try to edge until it falls off. (This one never fails to frustrate the hell out of me)

12. Kneel with legs spread and your ass in the air for 10 mins. Stuff your cunt and your face.

13. Put on 5 pairs of panties and try to edge on one of your couch cushions. Every 30 seconds over 3 minutes it takes to reach the edge is  smack to each ass cheek (round up) . Stop after 10 mins of trying, shove the innermost pair of panties in your mouth, complete all smacks, and then describe what a worthless fuck toy you are out loud 5 different ways, with the panties still in your mouth. Then you may take them out.

14. Write a fantasy about how hard you want to be fucked. Then grind your pussy along a cock for about a minute and stop. Don’t move for another minute, then get off. 

15. Kneel with your ass in the air and a spreader bar between your knees just out of sight of an open window. Stay like this for a random time less than 10 mins.

A promising new blog for all of us denial fans. Apparently I’m her first follower so I encourage you to check it out. Here’s a nice list of tasks she’s come up with as a taster!