1. Take it SLOW – I know you are excited. You want to just jump right in and do what you saw at the movies, on television or read in a book. If you take it slow, you greatly reduce the chance of anyone getting injured or mentally scarred by what happens.
2. CONSENT – This is HUGE. I cannot stress enough the importance of have the consent of all that are involved. This means Dominants and submissives BOTH. Consent is the cornerstone of all BDSM activities and without that, it is abuse.
3. COMMUNICATION – Second only to consent, communicating your needs, desires, limits and expectations is crucial. If you cannot communicate to your Dominant what you want or cannot communicate to your submissive what you are comfortable with, you need to stop and reconsider.
4. Practice, practice, practice – Another important thing for Dominants, especially those into impact play (striking with floggers, canes and even the hand) is practice. Hit yourself with the flogger first. Understand how it feels. Learn how the same strength strike with one toy differs from another and still differs from a bare hand. This will help you understand what you are doing with your submissive.
5. Aftercare – This is crucial when conducting any sort of scene, especially those that involve impact play. This can truly stave off “sub-drop” which you can think of as a short term but often bad depression. You are responsible for your partner before, during and AFTER a scene. It doesn’t end just because you got off. Make sure your partner is alright. Warm blankets, water, cuddling, lotion on a red rear and of course tender words will go a long way here.
6. Real Life Does Not Equal Porn – I don’t care who your submissive is, one does not simply start shoving things into orifices without build-up or knowledge. I don’t care what you saw on that porn movie, you are not going from “exit only” to a 2-inch wide butt plug in a matter of seconds, nor are you sticking that industrial sized rubber dildo into a vagina that’s never known anything above “human sized”. This can lead to serious injury and potentially life-threatening situations. So, before you go crazy with the internal use toys, step back and re-read number one above.
If you follow these, your start into a BDSM life will be far better and much less harmful to you and others. Enjoy. – Ian
It took a bit longer than anticipated, but The Crucible T&D Challenge is now complete and live. It is the longest and most comprehensive TD-Games tease and denial offering to date.
This challenge runs for 15 consecutive days. While 15 days might seem quick and easy to many tease & denial enthusiasts who have endured far lengthier periods, this challenge would be a good first longer term experience for girls who have previously only attempted a short tease & denial experience lasting only a day or a few days at most.
The Crucible T&D Challenge is open to anyone interested in trying it and no advance request or registration is required. It can be started on any day of the week that suits the participant. Participants are however encouraged to share their experiences with the readers of TD-Games by posting comments here using either the “Submissions” link or the “Ask” link for those who wish to remain anon.
Given that the blog dedicated to this challenge has already received more than a thousand views, there does seem to be a good bit of interest in it and it is hoped that many will give the challenge a go.
There’s a girl who I saw like this once…and the image of her laid out, presented and ready, is burned in my memory forever.
An ample butt to hold onto, pull and spank.
A short body, long hair, the perfect combination for tugging, her head being controlled by a fistful wrapped around, secure, controlled.
Breasts that are ample enough that I can reach to squeeze and pinch, to tug.
So many handles to give me leverage, to work myself deeper and deeper, pain and tears giving way to joyful pants and cries of pleasure.
A girl with a body…such a body…a body made for sex.
There’s a girl I saw like this once…and once I’d tasted all she could give me, I made a vow.
She would be mine.
Not “my girl” like some high school couple going steady, oh no, Mine with a capital M.
My baby girl, My whore, My slave.
There’s a girl I saw like this once…and I can picture every detail of her body, every curve, every imperfection. I close my eyes and I see her. I smell her delicious scent. My mouth remembers the taste of her.
The bell rings causing the class to start gathering their items and placing them into their bags. “Alright, class is over, everyone have a good weekend.” The teacher calls out as he makes his way along the desks then taps on yours. “You. Stay there.” He whispers as he looks down at you for a moment before continuing to walk along the rows of desks, his voice making you flinch for a second as you sit there, wondering what he wants. Within two minutes the other students had left the room, leaving you and your teacher alone, the sound of people walking along the hallway. Your teacher walks over to the door and pushes it shut, the window in the middle of the door foggy making it hard for people to see in.
“Sir?” You call out softly as you watch your teacher turn to you. “What was it that you wanted to talk about?” You ask as you wait, your teacher slowly walking back up past the other desks. “You think I didn’t notice?” He asks with a raised eyebrow and a stern, making you lower yourself in your chair, unsure of what he means. “I-I’m sorry sir, but I don’t know what you are talking about..” You manage to squeak out. “You were on your phone for most of that lesson, you didn’t take any notes, and the times you weren’t on your phone, you were falling asleep.” Your teacher states, as he names the rules you had broken throughout the day, making you look down, unable to look at his face. “So now you will be punished.” He stated firmly.
“Punished?” You question softly before taking a deep breath, the sound of the word combined with his tone making your core shiver, this unexpected feeling making your face turn red. “Stand up!” He barks out a order. You quickly stand up, surprised by the way your body reacted, jumping to follow his command. “Grab the edge of the table and lean forward.” Your teacher gives you another order as he moves around and grabs your chair, pulling it out of you way, making space behind you. Your hands move to the edge of the desk and grips hold of it, as your body automatically moves forward, the shock at how willing your body follows commands being pushed to the side as you feel warmth and wetness engulf your crotch, damping your panties.
“Look at that.” Your teacher laughs as he starts to squat down, amused by how easily you followed his orders. “I never would of guessed you were into this.” He grins as he sees the wet spot on your panties and watches for a moment as it gets bigger, your body trembling slightly as you realize he can see it. “S-Sir, I won’t do it again..” You whimper softly, your voice mixed with lust and fear. “After today you won’t. You need rules, and punishments for breaking them, you need your mind focus otherwise it will just drift away.” Your teacher starts to speak as his hand slowly runs up your inner thigh, almost touching your panties but stopping inches away from them, then slides back down. Your breath catching in your throat as you think he is about to touch you, only to have a wave of disappointment wash over you, causing a whimper of want to leave your mouth, letting him know he has you now.
“I’m going to focus your mind and body, so you will be the best student in my class.” Your teacher smirks as he runs a hand up along the outside of both your legs, his fingers hooking into the sides of your panties then tugs them down to your ankles in one quick movement, a long stream of your juices following your panties and snapping off, falling to the floor. Your face turns bright red as you dig your fingertips into the desk, the cool wind blowing past your wet little pussy, making you shiver as you bite your bottom lip, trying to hold back a soft moan. “You will thank me for this, but not today or tomorrow.” He chuckles with a evil little smirk as his hand slides back up along your inner thigh and moves over your little pussy, grasping your firmly, the warmth of his hand making your body buck once. “Easy, just stand as still as you can.” He orders you, making your body freeze, your legs unable to stay still, trembling slightly.
His hand starts to roughly grind along your lips, up and down, making sure his fingers run over your clit, the sensation making you cry out softly as your head falls forward, your reaction making him grin. “Just from a simple touch, you make such dirty sounds. This will be easier than I thought.” He teases, his words making you pant softly as your whole body burns from embarrassment, that same embarrassment causing you to become wetter. His hand continues to slowly but roughly move, quickly becoming soaked in your juices. You feel an orgasm quickly build up as your pussy throbs along with your legs shaking. You whimper louder as your whole body slumps forward. “Oh no.” Your teacher laughs as he pulls his hand away, reading your body perfectly, the signs letting him know that you are close. “Sir!” You whimper as you look back at him, your hips starting to grind against the air.
“I said this was punishment, not a reward.” He laughs as he looks back up at you. “Don’t move.” He orders, making your hips stop in mid-grind. Time slowly passes as you feel your orgasm weaken, almost fading away until his hand is on your quivering pussy again, making you cry out once more. His fingers penetrate your lips and push as deep as they can into you, making your body heat up again as his hand rubs and touches your most sensitive parts, your juices flowing from you and dripping down your legs as he toys with your body, pulling away once more as he feels your pussy tighten around his fingers. “Please sir!” You plead as you pant, your body struggling to reach that height of pleasure.
For the next ten minutes your teacher brings you to the edge over and over again, letting your body creep closer each time, but stopping before you cum, leaving your body a panting, wet mess. “That’s enough.” He grins as he stops once more then stands up, leaving you panting heavily as you feel little explosions of pleasure, leaving your body very unsatisfied. “S-Sir?” Your whimper and whine as you stare at him, as he walks around to the front of the desk and stares at you. “You will not touch yourself. No matter what you aren’t allowed to cum.” He barks a order, making you whimper again. “If you don’t touch yourself and if next Monday you learn, take notes and don’t look at your phone at all, I will reward you. And trust me, you want my reward.” He tells you, giving you orders for the weekend, making your shiver and whimper. “Yes, s-sir..” You answer back softly.
Your teacher walks into class on Monday morning, a smile on his face as he bids everyone a good morning. A small grin creeps onto his lips as he sees you sitting up at your desk, a pen in your hand and notebooks open on the table. “I hope everyone had a, interesting weekend.” He chuckles softly as he notices your foot tapping on the floor, along with your twitching leg, your breathing harder than normal and your face flushed. “I’m sure today will be a day that you remember.” He states with a smile as he grabs a book from his bag. “Alright, who is ready to take notes?”
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Request: teacher eg dig his student for being bad. From: Anon. Tags: Teacher x student, edging, punishment.
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